What a change to my last post. I am pleased to say that I managed to get back on top of my feelings, talk to the right people and make a decision on how I was going to proceed with what had happened. All that counselling and prayer is working! It needed to, as last Wednesday May 18th was hubs and mine 20th wedding anniversary and we took ourselves off to Venice to celebrate. My husbands second mum (step mum sounds so scary) came and looked after our 15 and 16 year olds. It was the first time we had been away for more than one night since my mum died 3 years ago.
Now just before we went my husband let on that he wasn't intending to take me on a Gondola. Fortunately for me Granny Liz felt as strongly as I did that it was something we MUST do :) .
After a couple of days watching the madness of the Gondoliers working in the very busy tourist area around St Marks Square, I decided I needed to use Google to find somewhere quiet! I found some great tips on trip adviser, they advised going in the evening and suggested going to an area the other side of the Grand Canal from St Marks Square. This was in the Academia area, where all the students live. What wonderful advise it was, the only other Gondola's or boats we saw the whole 40 minute trip were the few minutes on the Grand Canal. The rest of the time we could hear birds singing and the ripple of water made by our skilled Gondolier as we gracefully glided down the 'streets' and under the bridges.
As we turned onto the Grand Canal, we were shown where Casanova was born and another building where Napoleon lived for a couple of years.
You can see that although the Grand Canal is so much bigger than the small street canals, after 7pm even that quietens down.
All too soon, we were came to the end. It wasn't cheap you pay 20 euros more after 7pm, making it quite expensive at 100 euros for the 40 minute ride. It is however a once in a lifetime opportunity that I am so pleased we did and I'm very grateful to google for helping us to find somewhere nice and quiet!
