tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3981233528365319012.post6669237611548189600..comments2019-11-22T12:21:19.731+00:00Comments on Trying to be Me: Suicide is Painless?Jane D.http://www.blogger.com/profile/02571647840432446028noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3981233528365319012.post-68425171968588894872013-04-12T18:28:21.488+01:002013-04-12T18:28:21.488+01:00Thank you dearest friend xxxxxxxThank you dearest friend xxxxxxxJane D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02571647840432446028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3981233528365319012.post-71976223601293086892013-04-10T10:19:02.967+01:002013-04-10T10:19:02.967+01:00You and your family are surrounded by people who c...You and your family are surrounded by people who care deeply about you all. Coming to terms with the events of the last few years is a process which is starting to take shape. The thoughts you have aired here are a part of that process, and in doing so you show a willingness to accept the need for help and advice. <br />You will recover. It will never be easy to deal with the grief, but it will get further away, and that distance will allow it to focus less sharply in your day to day living. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10215732933187716875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3981233528365319012.post-1930215520774817932013-04-09T23:06:03.580+01:002013-04-09T23:06:03.580+01:00Thank you Ray xThank you Ray xJane D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02571647840432446028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3981233528365319012.post-73204592470635491112013-04-09T22:37:19.923+01:002013-04-09T22:37:19.923+01:00xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxKohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10828606538922445464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3981233528365319012.post-5274593938047469862013-04-09T22:25:40.526+01:002013-04-09T22:25:40.526+01:00I cannot attempt to answer your questions about yo...I cannot attempt to answer your questions about your mother Jane, no-one can, but this I will say.<br />There is a point in the descending spiral of unhappiness/melancholy/misery/depression, call it what you will, when suicide seems the only possible way to obtain relief.<br />I truly believe that for the person concerned, at that time, no-one else exists. No opinions, offers of help, possible options even register with the individual.<br />As to the method. That is not usually the result of long thought, it is the immediate solution and the apparently simplest way.<br />There is no comfort I can offer you except to say that you could almost certainly have made no difference to her decision.<br />I do not say this lightly, but I do have actual experience so have some insight into this distressing scenario.Ray Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209429097744326143noreply@blogger.com